Bespoke Matters.

The partnership between May and Xiaoli began in 2016, driven by our shared vision of becoming the premier Asian matchmakers in the industry. We are the best Asian Matchmakers because our collaboration to help numerous executive search clients has yielded many remarkable success stories. It was only natural for us to formalize our matchmaking alliance to serve more men and women.

We invite you to connect with one or both of us as you embark on a transformative journey. By combining our expertise, we deliver an unparalleled dating experience that elevates your search for love to extraordinary heights.

May bugenhagen

May Bugenhagen is an experienced luxury matchmaker and dating coach who works with private clients all across the United States and Asia. She is responsible for thousands of connections, which includes both her private matchmaking clients since 2009 as well as curated Asian dating events. May specializes in connecting discerning gentlemen with remarkable Asian women. Clients choose May for the exclusiveness of a limited clientele. Luxury dating with privacy.

Contact May at (310) 867-0851 or email at May@TwoAsianMatchmakers.com.

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Xiaoli Mei

Xiaoli Mei is an elite matchmaker and dating coach, renowned for her deep understanding of psychology and cross-cultural dynamics in relationships. With dual certifications in matchmaking and relationship coaching, she has transformed the lives of over 900+ singles, helping them discover love and build fulfilling partnerships. Xiaoli will take the time to custom-fit a program specifically for the client to achieve his desired end goal. Discreet introductions for executives.

Contact Xiaoli at (925)457-2969 or email at support@eliteasianmatchmaker.com.

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Success Stories. Plenty of Them.

Sometimes you just need someone to put the right person in front of you.

I’m writing to send you a heartfelt thank you for the introduction to Cecelia just over one year ago. We recently celebrated our very first date. We’ve both had such fun thinking about and laughing together about that first meeting. We’ve come so far since then! When I contacted you, I was really at a bottom point. My relationship of nearly 30 years was firmly gone. I was sad and lonely. I had tried the apps for about 48 hours and realized that would be a nearly hopeless path filled with false representations and wasted time. Talking with you gave me hope. You spent the time to get to know me and helped me think about possibilities that I had not even dared hope for. You reminded me that I’m a good person and would likely be successful in finding someone that was a good match. Cecelia was the light I was looking for. Her beauty is easy to see, but beyond that, I remember that you said she is wise beyond her years. You are right. She has consistently challenged and inspired me over the last year. She has pulled me through so much darkness, and I think we have a really bright future ahead. Last year was incredible, but this year we got married! Thank you for what you are doing. I’m not sure what percentage end up as winners, but I can tell you this one is a big win! – Drew J, CTO | Married with a baby on the way 

I researched several companies and selected this company. Best decision I could ever of made! They know the secrets to matchmaking. They are very focused and did a marvelous job finding my perfect match. I not only found my match but now have a new best friend! We are now engaged and planning our wedding for next summer. Can’t thank you both enough!!! – BS, Physician and Business Owner

I personally recommend this matchmaker Xiaoli. She is so good. Some context, I am stable financially sound, executive level. I wanted someone to help up level and screen candidates for a suitable match than I was getting from a traditional dating app. Xiaoli truly gives individual attention to get to know me as a person. All the candidates presented are really good: beautiful, kind, values. After every date I was asked for feedback and got feedback. It really help me solidify what I am looking for and helped me date better. Also she understands very well cultural nuances of dating asian. She also makes time when I want to talk about someone in more depth than dating. This is a person that really does wants to help you succeed. Not once did I feel pressure to go with someone. It was really wanting to find a match that I am comfortable. I’ve heard from the women that she takes the time to coach and help them. What an amazing matchmaker! – Tom H, CEO | Happily dating

Hi Xiaoli, I am engaged !!! He just proposed this last Friday. It was a surprise. Thank you so much for introducing us. – Angela L, Mortgage Banker | Engaged

I was referred to you (Xiaoli) because I was seeking matchmaking for billionaires…by another matchmaker because only you can meet my search criteria. It took 8 matches to find my dream girl. Thank you for the service. No further recommendations needed. – Dave, Billionaire CEO | Married with a new baby 

I have to hand it to these matchmakers- they really work hard to help you make that connection.  A lot of “dating help” organizations really lack focus and skill in doing what needs to be done but they are great at both.  These two ladies go out of their way to make sure everyone is taken care of. If you are single and you are looking for that special someone – I definitely recommend them. – Paul, Partner at Law Firm |Married with three children

I’m not a huge fan of dating agencies. I wasn’t sure if a high-end matchmaking service can deliver. However, getting to know May and working with her, I kind of changed my mind. She has no problems telling clients what to wear, giving suggestions on places to take my dates, and giving me feedback after each date. They specialize in one on one matchmaking for us. I married the woman of my dreams last month. The women I have met through them were intelligent, professional women so I would recommend them to my friends. – James, Business Owner | Married

One can’t go to a match maker and expect instant results. Finding love in LA is truly challenging, but these two really care about you. They take time figuring out what you like, what your must haves/can’t haves are. They also do everything for you; it’s like a concierge service. After almost two years, I married her. I never would have met her if it wasn’t for them I highly recommend their services. – Rich, Real Estate | Married with two children

Seems like they are very involved in understanding people and the actual matching of compatibility and personalities. I’m not an easy person to match (been single for 24 years) so this was a great experience for me. They weren’t my best friends all the time. They promised me they would work hard for me and and they did. Their follow through was impeccable. I am impressed so far. – NN, Director of Engineering | New Client

Fantastic service and very professionally managed. I am very impressed and have enjoyed meeting the high quality level of people. Cannot recommend these ladies highly enough. – LM, Commercial Real Estate Developer | Happily Dating

I couldn’t be more thankful for the amazing experience I had with May. From our first conversation, May took the time to listen and helped me figure out what I was missing in my dating life. She helped me understand who I was really seeking in a long term partner. Her process felt down to earth, personal and curated, yet she brought a level of insight and professionalism that quickly made me comfortable. Don’t get me wrong, some questions were really personal. The introductions she arranged for me were top notch. These aren’t the ladies I’d find on a dating app, that’s for sure. After a few months, I met someone who truly understands me and shares my values, goals, and lifestyle. I can’t recommend May enough! I know I wasn’t the easiest client! – LW, Attorney and Real Estate | In a relationship

I’d recommend May to anyone who is looking for a serious relationship, so if you’re still in a transactional mode it may not be for you. May and her crew of matchmakers set you up for success by meeting with you so they can get a good sense of who you are and what you’re looking for. They will then hire a photographer so you can look your best to potential matches. They do a good job pairing you up with dates that seem suited to you. And they give you excellent feedback on the dates based on input from the other party. It’s a process that usually gets refined as you go and the matches get more and more on point. I am married to an Asian woman of my dreams and we have one child. If it wasn’t for May and her team, I’d probably still be single! – Clinton, Chief Technology Officer | Married with one child

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